Dare to Do Hard Things

The answers are revealing. Without fail, people don't mention easy tasks or simple victories. Instead, they speak of the mountains they've climbed, the obstacles they've overcome, and the difficult goals they've achieved. Things like navigating life as a single parent, or getting out of debt. Some say graduating from college or building a business from the bottom up. [highlight]It's a stark reminder that our most significant accomplishments are often born from our greatest struggles.[/highlight]Yet, paradoxically, most of us spend our lives trying to make things as easy as possible. We are wired to seek comfort, convenience, and the path of least resistance. While there's nothing inherently wrong with making life more manageable, we must be cautious not to shy away from challenges entirely.In recent years, I've observed a concerning trend in society. There seems to be a growing tendency to discourage people from tackling hard things. We tell people things like, “Do what makes you happy.” I hate to break it to you, but that’s bad advice.History has shown us that great achievements, innovations, and personal growth often come from facing and overcoming adversity. By avoiding challenges, we are robbing ourselves and future generations of valuable opportunities for development and success. In The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter, he notes, “a radical new body of evidence shows that people are at their best—physically harder, mentally tougher, and spiritually sounder—after experiencing the same discomforts our early ancestors were exposed to every day.” We need to reframe difficulties not as things to be avoided, but as opportunities for growth and achievement.And it’s not enough for us to do hard things, but we should encourage others to lean in, as well.As a parent, are you creating opportunities for your child to persevere through adversity? As a boss, are you creating an environment that encourages facing challenges head on?As a friend, do you push those you care about to be the best versions of themselves?When we face and overcome challenges, that’s when we grow. [highlight]By embracing hard things, we open ourselves up to greater achievements, deeper satisfaction, and a more resilient future.[/highlight]Maybe this is the nudge you need. Step out of your comfort zone. That tough decision you’re facing? Don’t shy away. Lean In. You might just find that your greatest accomplishment is just on the other side of your greatest obstacle.